Planning a funeral can be a sensitive and emotional experience. Whether you are doing some preparations for your own funeral in order to reduce pressure on your family in these difficult times or you are making the arrangements for a beloved person in your life, no one likes to actively and consistently think about death. However, at some point it may be worth fully investigating the options open to you in order to organise the most appropriate funeral possible.
Coping with a death can be a confusing and upsetting time, and funeral homes can guide you through the process to take a weight off your mind. Remember that they are used to dealing with people in a sensitive condition so you can feel reassured that you are in safe hands and will be treated sensitively.
When someone close to you dies, it can be difficult to know what to do, practically and emotionally. Whether it is unexpected, or they have been battling with an illness for some time, it can be a confusing period of time.
The First Steps
The first thing you need to do is to obtain the medical certificate from the attending doctor, which you can then use to register the death. This must take place five days after the death, so if you are understandably not feeling like you can do this, then ask another relative or loved one to help out.
It’s normally required that you provide a document such as a birth certificate, NHS medical card or marriage certificate when registering a death. If you are thinking of making plans for when you pass away, then it is worth making sure that these important documents are in an easy to access, but safe place, such as a filing cabinet or a safe.
The Right Funeral
When you get the death certificate you will also receive a green form which needs to be passed on to the funeral directors and it will enable them to perform the burial or cremation. After this has been issued, you can then think about what date the funeral can be performed on.
It’s at this point that you may have the difficult decision over the budget of a funeral. It may not be something you have even considered, but it can be a costly expense, especially if your loved one has not set aside any money for this certainty. If you are thinking about planning for your own funeral, then it is worth considering a pre-paid plan, which will take away the cost and ordeal for your family or friends.
Make Sure Everything Is Thought About
After the burial, it’s customary in many faiths and traditions to attend a meal for the individual or to go back to one of the family member’s homes. Sometimes, if a person knows that he or she is passing, that individual will express some details that he or she would like at this event. It’s important to respect the person’s wishes as a tribute.
Planning a funeral is never going to be easy and it’s natural to be nervous about forgetting something. If you have any doubts at all about your plans, talk them through with the funeral director or a close family member who will be in a position to put your mind at rest or offer advice where necessary.