The fairytale situation is for two people who fall in love to get married in a beautiful ceremony and for that to be the prelude to the rest of their lives spent together in matrimony. For a number of lucky people this may well be the case but a lot of marriages do not manage to go the distance, for any number of reasons. Divorce is the ultimate solution for the majority of unworkable marriages and the circumstances will generally stipulate how easy or difficult the overall proceedings will be. By following some steps as best you can however you can give yourself the best possible chance of making it an amicable and well-organised parting of ways.
Hiring a good solicitor
A solicitor is required as part of a divorce and they will take care of a significant part of the process. As part of the service a solicitor is there to provide they will supply you with the best expert advice they can and it is always recommended that you take notice of whatever they may suggest or instruct you to do. Some of their advice may be easier to take than others but it is essential to take it all on board to ensure that the court proceedings with regard to settlements, child custody and payments (if applicable) go as well as they can for you.
One of the most useful tips to take notice of is to remain in the house you share unless you are required to leave. As it will be decided in the settlement who gets ownership of the property it can weaken your case if you have left the home already. It may be looked upon as less of an upheaval if your partner (and children if they live there too) stay in the home so think carefully before you move out without being required to, as difficult as it may be while a divorce is going on.
Keep it respectful and know your rights
Some divorces can be amicable without too many inflammatory occurrences, especially if it is simply a case of you both realising that the time has come to part, but many involve a great deal of hardships. It is always a good idea to resist the urge to make it more of a strain with regard to arguments and suchlike, especially if there are children in the equation. Take the time to understand the legal rights you have too.
Article written by Darren Mullins on behalf of the solicitors http://pjf.ie/ who provide a range of services, from personal injury to divorce proceedings.